tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post4751093635208356877..comments2024-03-19T02:43:07.969-04:00Comments on "Time's Up!": Mogul Mothers, Suppressed SonsTime's Uphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09908111385466002389noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-82380582712006355332017-09-22T13:38:47.723-04:002017-09-22T13:38:47.723-04:00A great article which opened the passages of my mi...A great article which opened the passages of my mind clogged with guilt, anger and conflicting emotions and thoughts. I am from India and I dare say a lot of this is very much true in this country too. Mothers exert a great control over their son's and added to this is the socio-religious indoctrination of idealizing a mother-son relationship and considering it to be the standard to earn the label of a good man. Many mothers even bathe their sons well into their late teens as if it is the 'normal' and feel offended if their son's decline asserting their individuality and boundaries. This leaves the son, especially if he is not well informed and well read, to be saddled with feelings of perennial guilt. One can imagine the havoc, suffering, the avoidable psychological pain, conflict and internal chatter that will emasculate and exhaust such a man all throughout his life. A swing between extreme anger and then guilt and the actions and harmful results they beget in his life. And thus the scarred mutilated personality that would emerge as a result soldiers on bloodied just not able to 'live' life. The Mothers do not know or realise this and the immense harm such over involvement causes to the psycho-sexual development of their offspring and the sons too are already enmeshed to be able to get vocal and clear enough to set boundaries and breakaway without being saddled within of a conflict of anger-guilt and the resultant exhaustion-depression. It is tragic. And there are hardly anyone who could even begin to see this as a problem in our society. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-58306101211039706972017-07-31T08:51:17.060-04:002017-07-31T08:51:17.060-04:00Hi to everyone on this site. I'm new here and ...Hi to everyone on this site. I'm new here and i would love to share my experience to every mother and to those who wished to be a mother someday. I have been in marriage for 13 yrs with no child of my own and my husband loved me so much that he never do things without me. 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This is an extraordinary blessing and to all soon to be a mother I am telling you nothing but my true life story and here his email ID marvelspelltemple@gmail.com Whatsapp contact +2348071660388Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16804469416592395416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-47409628982805655252016-12-26T12:52:20.415-05:002016-12-26T12:52:20.415-05:00I'm sorry. You must miss him. I am/was in the ...I'm sorry. You must miss him. I am/was in the same situation. His mother allowed him to cheat on me (he's *38* and *still* lives @ home) in her home. Despite knowing we have seen have been and were serious. I see this as yet another sabotage. He doesn't, and if I was willing to forgive his infidelity (I'm not), he is only concerned with the rude texts I sent *his* mother. <br />There is something wrong with him, as well. He enjoys staying a perpetual adolescent. <br />I don't even know what to "google." I've suffered greatly in every way. The only way to end the suffering for me is to have NO CONTACT. <br /> <br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-22134040734120479972016-04-06T22:44:58.047-04:002016-04-06T22:44:58.047-04:00Dear Anonymous: It's been a while since you po...Dear Anonymous: It's been a while since you posted this, and I am only just now seeing it several years later, so I don't know if you'll see my response. I just want to say, first, that I am sorry that you have had to deal with the double whammy of a controlling mother, plus a lack of sympathy or support from others who might have been able to help you.<br /><br />Your experience sounds similar to my own in many respects. (Scroll way, way down to April 6, 2016 and you'll see my post.) I, too, tried to get help from many people in escaping my mother's excessive control when I was growing up. And I, too, was shut down with a host of unhelpful responses, such as self-righteous platitudes about my duty as her daughter. It never occurred to them that she might have some duties toward her daughter that she was not fulfilling.<br /><br />In addition, not only was my father no help, he was a significant part of the problem. While I am well aware that my mother placed outrageous, unreasonable demands on everyone, including him, I think it was pretty cowardly of him to hide out at the bars drinking himself into oblivion, knowing full well that I, the youngest of the family, was left alone day and night to deal single-handedly with all her craziness.<br /><br />So I know what it's like to reach adulthood saddled with tons of other people's baggage. I felt deeply resentful that I was the one who wound up needing therapy when those two were the real sickos. But there it was. The unfair truth was that I was the only one who was truly suffering from our family's mental illness; the others all seemed to quite enjoy it. I suspect that might be the case with you.<br /><br />If it is, please know that I empathize. It's not fair that you are stuck carrying your mother's baggage. It's not fair that no one helped you escape being loaded up with that baggage when they were in a position to help you. It's not fair that you have encountered women who are more concerned about their own feelings about the mother's domineering and abusive treatment than they are about the enmeshed son's. And it's not fair that everyone expects you to do the hard work of getting all that baggage unpacked so that they can enjoy the fruits of your labors. <br /><br />It's not fair, and it sucks, and I empathize. I was in your shoes, and I hated it. I hated that I had to suck it up and do all the hard work that they should have done. And I'm not going to lie: It was extremely difficult, excruciating, lonely work. But here's the thing: My life is the better for my having done it. It's been more than 30 years since I did that work. And while my life is far from perfect now, it certainly is not the dysfunctional, despairing, soul-killing mess it used to be.<br /><br />I have to say this, too, in case no one has ever said it to you before: I really have to congratulate you. It is the rare man in your position who has the insight to see the destructive mother-son dynamic for what it is. Most enmeshed sons I have encountered are extremely defensive and hostile when the subject comes up. So I really admire and respect you for being able to see the truth and be honest with yourself about it. <br /><br />If you don't mind, I will pray for you that you can find peace. It is a wonderful gift when you find it. That is my hope for you. Peace and blessings.BeenThereDoneThathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16567115682017184841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-74791467924608275102016-04-06T22:13:08.947-04:002016-04-06T22:13:08.947-04:00Bill: It has been years since you wrote your post,...Bill: It has been years since you wrote your post, and I am just now seeing it tonight. But if you ever happen to read my reply, I feel the need to say something for you that probably is in the back of your mind but would be difficult for you to verbalize without feeling guilty.<br /><br />Here it is:<br /><br />Shame on her. <br /><br />Shame on your mother for leaving you with final words that were sure to cause you pain every time you thought of them, and with no hope that she might ever be able to take them back. What a terrible thing to do to your child, that your last memory of her is hearing her repeat the same cruel words that caused you so much pain most of your life. <br /><br />You do not need to feel bad for upsetting her. I feel bad for you because she chose to upset you right up to the very end. Shame on her. My prayer for you is that you have been able to find peace. BeenThereDoneThathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16567115682017184841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-54315107192938023872016-04-06T21:46:58.379-04:002016-04-06T21:46:58.379-04:00All very good observations, Heidi. I do wish you w...All very good observations, Heidi. I do wish you would say more about the destructive role the absentee fathers play in this dynamic.<br /><br />I am the daughter of a mother like the one you describe. My role was a toxic mix of "chosen child" responsible for meeting all of her demands; "target child," who took the heat whenever she needed someone to blame for her unhappiness; and "identified patient," when I began acting out my inner turmoil during my teens. There were other, equally destructive roles for me, but you get the idea.<br /><br />My mother also attempted to make my older brother her chosen one. For many years her attempts were successful: he was the straight-A student, active in numerous school activities, extremely polite, extremely submissive, the all-around Good Boy who was (I suspect) racked with sexual problems, although we never discussed them. After college he moved all the way across the country to achieve a modicum of autonomy. <br /><br />And where was our father during all this time? Mostly hanging out in bars, drinking himself into oblivion, getting his drivers license revoked numerous times, getting fired from numerous jobs, and just generally not meeting any of his obligations to any of us, and certainly not to her. When he was home, he was cold and contemptuous toward all of us.<br /><br />So here's who my brother and I married. He married a controlling woman who is physically unattractive and therefore neither a threat to my brother's shaky self-esteem nor to my mother's position as the reigning beauty. (She was a stunner when she was young.) I, meanwhile, married a controlling man who was physically unappealing and therefore not a threat to my shaky self-esteem. His mother was a controlling, insecure woman like the mother you describe in your article. And his father was a domineering, emotionally abusive man who demanded that his own needs get met at the expense of everyone else's -- especially those of his wife. If anyone dared to disappoint him, he withdrew into a cold, icy silence that would last for days, weeks and months on end.<br /><br />And the beat goes on.<br /><br />I don't in any way wish to excuse the inappropriate ways mothers like this damage their children. I just wish we would hold more honest conversations about the catastrophic damage that is done by these toxic fathers. They are equally responsible for the damage that is caused in their families ... if not more so, because society gives them so much more freedom to make the major decisions for their families. I think it's time we started holding men equally accountable for the wellbeing of their wives and children. I personally have heard about all I ever want to hear about bad mothers. And that's saying a lot, because I really hated my mother when I was growing up. I still find her petty, selfish and mean-spirited. But my father certainly was no prize, either. Can we please start talking about the guys for a change?<br />BeenThereDoneThathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16567115682017184841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-63037743423394750762016-03-30T04:21:21.541-04:002016-03-30T04:21:21.541-04:00I dated a guy who was completely controlled by his...I dated a guy who was completely controlled by his mother. I have to say, he was probably one of the nicest and most generous men I've ever had a relationship with, and I would have loved to gotten to know him better, but his mother wouldn't have it. At 35 years old, and more than likely still a virgin, his mother was against our dating from the start. It took me a long time to figure out what I might have done wrong, because I felt that I was the problem. It wasn't until I finally met her, that I saw what a controlling and manipulative person that she was. That being said, she was perfectly gracious and kind to me the one and only time we had met, of course we were in public when that occurred; she had no choice but to be nice. But it was clear that she had her son tightly wrapped around her finger. And it wasn't beyond him either, he knew how his mother worked, and knew it was wrong, but continued to cave into her demands. She insisted that he break it off with me, and called me things I've never been called in my life, as if I was the devil herself. It became apparent based on the discussions he and I had together, that he had never been in a serious relationship, and always knew deep in his soul that his mother would never approve of anyone. Obviously our relationship never went further than a couple of dates, and I never saw him again. The great tragedy of this was that I had known him for several years prior to us dating; we'd gotten to become good friends at a weekly social outing. His mothers resentment of me, also led to her making enemies out everyone else at our weekly gatherings, which led to him leaving the group, and also end long-term friendships with perfectly good people. Myself and others confronted him about this, and he acknowledged that he knew his mother was in the wrong, but it didn't matter, she was in charge, and whatever she said was the rule. It's sad, because he was a great guy, and without his mother being so selfish and controlling of him, he's otherwise a great catch. I would have been happy to continue seeing him if he grew a spine and told his mother to stay out of it, but I suppose that's his own doing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-35871152203483210902016-03-05T05:08:22.985-05:002016-03-05T05:08:22.985-05:00I am Dianna from Michigan, i was in a serious rela...I am Dianna from Michigan, i was in a serious relationship with my Ex Boyfriend for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that once had a similar problem and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (rasheedtemple@gmail.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 2 days i was in my office when my Boyfriend called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)...you can contact this great spell caster with name Dr Rasheed from India through his email at( rasheedtemple@gmail.com )i wish you the best of luck...<br /><br />I am Dianna from Michigan, i was in a serious relationship with my Ex Boyfriend for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that once had a similar problem and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (rasheedtemple@gmail.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 2 days i was in my office when my Boyfriend called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)...you can contact this great spell caster with name Dr Rasheed from India through his email at( rasheedtemple@gmail.com )i wish you the best of luck...<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02131366830938697576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-56999021783409594202016-01-28T03:48:49.431-05:002016-01-28T03:48:49.431-05:00Hi
This is the story of my life I am from India a...Hi<br /><br />This is the story of my life I am from India and believe me this happens in india a lot.Most indian men have this mother syndrom.Indian ladies whether from rural or urban cities suffer extensively throughout their lives more becoz of the joint family system Young girls are taught to be submissive and meek right from the childhood.Itis disgusting to see this happening in all stratas of society.I escaped from an extremely abusive marriagewhich was totally dominated by my mother-in-law.Shehad made my life miserable in ever manner possible with my idiotic husband taking sides with and being physically abusive too,looking to create conflict at every given situation.I escaped from this abusive relationship with my daughter and am happy as eversmitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08537169392207348093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-27692875307015672212016-01-02T09:58:26.170-05:002016-01-02T09:58:26.170-05:00After being in relationship with him for 3 years, ...After being in relationship with him for 3 years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the other ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, lotto, his email is DRAISEDIONSPELLCASTER@OUTLOOK.COM you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or any other problem like wining lottery.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08683957577069147617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-30375383263665484762015-12-12T20:20:33.980-05:002015-12-12T20:20:33.980-05:00What a well written blog. In many ways, I feel I h...What a well written blog. In many ways, I feel I have dodged what would of been a very stressful and lonely relationship. I fell in love with a man for 6 months that lived with his parents as equal partnership in their home together. At first, i thought this may be ok. He was a great father, had a great job and always referenced his life like it was perfect.I started to see many signs that this guy was not able to work and communicate through situations as a couple, and was mystified as to why I was sensing so much discomfort around his mother. This mother and son shared an ego that I could not understand. Not knowing him very long, she would accompany us when we went out on occasion, and was so negative about her other sons significant other. I knew in time I would be next. I am not perfect, and i knew she would find flaws about me too. This was the only son she had this close relationship with and she once told me he was her favorite. I had to leave behind someone I loved very much. It broke my heart and there was no way to tell him what was in my heart or how I felt. I knew enough to know he would defend her ... no matter how much she invaded boundaries ... no matter what. I didn't try to fight for it. I knew I would lose. At least now I know for my future what this has opened my eyes too and what my gut was continuouslytelling me. Thank you for this blog. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-19123811705701276692015-12-10T11:11:53.465-05:002015-12-10T11:11:53.465-05:00This is such an amazing article and has helped me ...This is such an amazing article and has helped me more than I ever expected, along with all the heartfelt comments and experiences shared here. I am at the end of a three year relationship where I too lived in hope that my partner would fully commit to me and put me before his mother. He is a lovely man in so many ways but just can't (or won't) see the manipulation that is going on in front of him. I have felt like the other woman for too long and can't do it any longer. I'm really sad but it helps to know that I'm not the only one this has happened to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-38815112268296791072015-11-16T04:44:56.307-05:002015-11-16T04:44:56.307-05:00thank you so much for sharing such a great informa...thank you so much for sharing such a great information.it really helped me a lot.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.momspreppers.com/" rel="nofollow">preparedness</a>Sarah Edwardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01375792740553358110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-27571893701342437752015-11-15T08:28:56.174-05:002015-11-15T08:28:56.174-05:0020 years of marriage to a man who's married to...20 years of marriage to a man who's married to his mom, and I'm a wreck. I still love him with all my heart, which makes the thought of leaving seem impossible. For years, I thought there would be a time for just the 2 of us somewhere down the road. However, his mom is now 94 years old, in perfect health, and more energetic than my husband or me.<br /><br />As the years passed, she used her advanced age to make him feel even more obligated to always "be there" for her. She's healthier than we are, and I now believe she'll outlive me (I'm 63).<br /><br />I'm so depressed, I find myself dragging through each day, just waiting for God to take me home. I'm her companion while my husband works. I rarely get a break. I've tried counseling. He wouldn't go, and of course, said the therapist was wrong when she called his relationship with Mom "dysfunctional."<br /><br />By the way, he's the eldest of two sons. (Another point that hit home in your post.)<br /><br />He cheated on me more than once, before we were engaged. I took him back. He always says the right things, as you described. Our sex life ended after a year of marriage. He blamed his sexual dysfunction on blood pressure medication. I've long supected it had more to do with his mom than his physical health.<br /><br />To the young women who've posted that they're leaving their mama's boy: I salute you. You're doing the right thing. Run as fast as you can. It's too late for me. It's hard to leave a man who is otherwise a great guy; but, for your own sanity, do it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-13969814108027316982015-10-10T18:42:26.166-04:002015-10-10T18:42:26.166-04:00I just read the story of my husband's life, un...I just read the story of my husband's life, unfortunately I am slowly loosing the love of my life in a silent battle only I see. The rest of the world sees her as the most generous wonderful kind mother (person) in the world, even to me. However I am only visible to my husband when he wants me to be otherwise we live her life, their life. I don't know if I can take it much longer and he doesn't seem to care or want to change it, I am not a passive person. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-53316903681080963162015-10-10T18:41:58.998-04:002015-10-10T18:41:58.998-04:00I just read the story of my husband's life, un...I just read the story of my husband's life, unfortunately I am slowly loosing the love of my life in a silent battle only I see. The rest of the world sees her as the most generous wonderful kind mother (person) in the world, even to me. However I am only visible to my husband when he wants me to be otherwise we live her life, their life. I don't know if I can take it much longer and he doesn't seem to care or want to change it, I am not a passive person. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-15024005860021670412015-09-05T00:32:15.113-04:002015-09-05T00:32:15.113-04:00I have seen this phenomenon time and again and ind...I have seen this phenomenon time and again and indeed lived through the aftermath of just such a mother son relationship. Sparing the gory details suffice to say I very nearly was killed by such a man,miugLaurel O'Keefehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17237246062714261180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-68523951859248131852015-08-22T16:13:42.779-04:002015-08-22T16:13:42.779-04:00am too emotional to type a long reply but ty this ...am too emotional to type a long reply but ty this has helped , my mother has controlled my life and now in her 74th yeAR still does by now turning my own daughter against me when i stood up to her i am 41 my only resolve now is to outlive her i cant speak to anyone as she a supposid peer of the community and sits on every possible town/charity/political meeting for years i thought it was me ,im awake terribly hurting but awake tyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-40660499973677313522015-05-27T18:59:52.062-04:002015-05-27T18:59:52.062-04:00Well said! How people attach to their primary care...Well said! How people attach to their primary caregiver greatly conditions their capacity to form healthy connections to others for the rest of their lives. Settling for toxic connections or avoiding making connections to avert negative attention from mom is emotional enslavement. #cutthecord!Phyllis Williamshttp://www.mymindsupport.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-13592990103785240502014-09-25T20:41:30.505-04:002014-09-25T20:41:30.505-04:00Excellent article and well described.Makes me want...Excellent article and well described.Makes me want to cry because what a sad way to be. I know men like this and their poor wives are going crazy. I say run and never look back.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-73448702032023517502014-09-20T18:12:21.834-04:002014-09-20T18:12:21.834-04:00i have been a victim of all the article said for 2...i have been a victim of all the article said for 24 years. my husband calls me "the problem" accusing me for things that have never crossed my mind. it has been so painful because his mother comes first in any situation and she has the final say and she is the confidant of my husband. I am glad to have come upon this article, it is so liberating, it has actually set me free from the guilt of being accused for every thing. since my husband works away, i have emailed him a copy of the article so that he can also know what he suffers from and perhaps it can awaken a positive change in him. Thanks so much for publishing such an enlightening article, you are God-sent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-54783213277718592014-09-07T17:11:56.298-04:002014-09-07T17:11:56.298-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02431175386039845084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6032288097291902285.post-54333587183572902382014-02-26T03:52:36.531-05:002014-02-26T03:52:36.531-05:00My Name is Lee Marie, From United Kingdom. I wish
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